The Fates ~ Is Chronic Pain Your Destiny?

Once upon a time we may have thought that our destiny was dictated by the Fates.

Back in the day, without Pain Doctors or Surgeons or medicine or shoot, even the idea of a God or the Bible or Koran our lives, our futures, given a chronic pain condition, would have been, to state it mildly, precarious.

But then again…

Don’t we make sense of it all, as best we can, for this day, today, for our tomorrows and our yesterdays.


The Fates or Moirai were the three Greek goddesses of fate who personified the inescapable destiny of man. They were supposed to appear three nights after a child’s birth to determine the course of that life, the child’s divine privileges and mortal limits. At the birth of every man the three Fates appeared spinning, measuring, and cutting the thread of life. Our good and bad moments in life were considered predetermined by the Fates, incarnations of destiny, and it was impossible for anyone to get more than his ordained share.

The Fates were three sister deities-Clotho was the sister who spun the thread of life; she carried a spindle or a roll (the book of fate)…

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Advocating for Chronic Pain Support from our Government Representatives

The following is inspired by the Partners for Understanding Pain 

WRITING LETTERS TO MEMBERS OF CONGRESS AND GOVERNORS can have a tremendous impact and create significant positive change. As many people do not take the time or effort to do so, writing even one letter can have real influence- remember our government representatives work for us, the people. Hearing directly from constituents matters. It is vital for the welfare of not only ourselves but the entire chronic pain community-patients, care providers and the medical community that supports and sustains us- that we bring to the attention of our elected officials the enormous influence pain has upon health care costs, economic productivity, and human suffering.

With our new President and the legislators who work with his new administration to form their agenda, along with the push to “repeal and replace” the Affordable Healthcare Act aka Obamacare, now is a crucial time to make our voices heard.


To contact your congresstional representative and senators, log on to

Below is a sample letter that you can copy  and use. Go ahead and modify it to reflect your own concerns as appropriate.

Share this information with members of your support team, your family and friends and ask them to write letters too. Giving them the contact information and a copy of your letter may help.

You may also wish to post the letter on your social media account(s) to encourage others in your circle to join in and help bring the issue of pain to the attention of our government and too, plant seeds within our society to bring attention to the condition of chronic pain and the magnitude of its impact on our society- beyond the media’s laser-like focus on the issue of painkiller abuse ( a small component of the much larger pain management issue).


Be sure to include your name (or the organization that you are representing).






City, State, Zip

Dear Senator or Governor (last name),

As you prepare to begin your work with the new administration and too, addressing the affordable Healthcare Act,  I ask for your support in considering the importance and impact of chronic pain on our society.

Pain is a major health issue.  It is the number-one cause of adult disability in the United States and affects one in three people or about 100 million Americans.  According to an omnibus survey of 1,000 Americans conducted for the Partners for Understanding Pain, 34 percent of respondents said they currently live with ongoing pain. In spite of its pervasiveness, few physicians receive more than a few hours of formal training in pain management

Pain is a major economic issue. According to the National Institute of Medicine report, Relieving Pain in America: A Blueprint for Transforming Prevention, Care, Education, and Research,  pain costs more than $600 billion annually in lost workdays, medical expenses, and other benefit costs. Skyrocketing health care costs leave some, especially senior citizens, minorities, and the urban and rural poor, unable to get treatment that can help them manage their pain. Also, for millions of Americans pain medications are a vital part of their healthcare regimen, and the use of Opiates should not be villionized by the mid-deeds of the few. Pain is real and can be devastating in a number of ways. The seriousness and cost of the problem demand attention.

Pain is a major social issue, with an impact, well beyond the individual, on his or her spouse or partner, children, family, and community.

Partners for Understanding Pain brings together both health care professionals and patient organizations to build understanding of chronic, acute, and cancer pain issues and the impact of pain today. For more information about Partners for Understanding Pain, call 1800-533-3231 or visit

We ask you to support our efforts to have pain taken seriously as you craft new healthcare legislation and too, by declaring September National Pain Awareness Month.

Thank you for your consideration to this very important issue.


When Bad Things Happen to Good People

For those in chronic pain faith, although offering the potential for great comfort, solace and hope, can become a surprising and heartbreaking struggle, like chronic pain itself.

The question of why one is faced with such a constant state of distress canimg_1182 rapidly run right up against one’s faith. We learn that science can take us only so far; we have journeyed well beyond current boundaries of accessible medical understanding and solutions and have come to a place without answer. It is at this juncture that faith can feel as if it is failing or even absent entirely, leaving one forlorn and desolate. What then?


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